How ShadchanAI works
ShadchanAI helps move the process beyond surface information by creating structured, high-resolution profiles focused on the areas that matter most for long-term marriage fit.
One intake. Reusable insight.
A completed profile receives an SAI Number that can support future compatibility review whenever a proposed shidduch needs deeper clarity.
SAI Number
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Structured Data Points
A guided intake captures deeper information than a traditional resume can show.
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Analysis Modalities
The report reviews compatibility through multiple relationship and life-fit lenses.
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Relationship Dimensions
The analysis breaks compatibility into specific areas that can be reviewed and discussed.
The shidduch resume shows what is visible. ShadchanAI helps reveal what matters.
Many shidduchim look strong on paper because the background, age, hashkafah, family, and goals appear to line up. Lasting fit also depends on emotional rhythm, communication under pressure, conflict repair, decision-making style, family expectations, and the way each person actually wants to build a home.
ShadchanAI turns those compatibility factors into structured insight, helping the people involved ask better questions earlier and review the proposed shidduch with greater clarity.
“Dating with only a shidduch resume is like driving with your eyes closed. ShadchanAI helps bring the road into view.”
The process, step by step
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Build a deeper profile
Capture personality, cognitive style, emotional profile, attachment patterns, values, religious direction, family expectations, communication style, lifestyle structure, and long-term home-building vision.
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Receive your SAI Number
Once the profile is complete, ShadchanAI issues a unique SAI Number that can be added to a resume or shared with the appropriate people involved in shidduch review.
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Compare real alignment
When two people both have SAI Numbers, ShadchanAI generates a structured compatibility report that explains alignment, strengths, concerns, discussion points, and areas that need clarification.
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Review the shidduch block screen
The report identifies major caution areas first, so serious questions surface before more time and emotion are invested.
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Invite a shadchan when helpful
A participating shadchan can be invited into a specific review to facilitate the next stage of conversation.
Category summary preview
The report organizes the proposed shidduch into clear compatibility lanes, so the review is easier to understand and easier to discuss.
Home-Building Alignment
Religious direction, Jewish home vision, family structure, children expectations, and long-term priorities.
Relational Operating System
Communication rhythm, emotional needs, attachment, reassurance, conflict response, and repair timing.
Life Structure Fit
Daily routines, social energy, ambition, work-life balance, responsibility, finances, and practical maturity.
Preference + Practical Fit
Practical compatibility, broad preference fit, lifestyle expectations, flexibility, and readiness.
Personality and Pattern Layers
Personality patterns, cognitive style, emotional profile, values, motivation, stress response, and change tolerance.
What the report actually gives you
The report turns complex compatibility information into a structured review that can guide better questions, clearer conversations, and more focused human guidance.
Score and blocker review
Overall compatibility, confidence score, and shidduch block status help frame whether the proposed shidduch appears promising, unclear, or in need of significant clarification.
Category-level clarity
The report summarizes the major fit areas, then provides deeper analysis where the profiles show alignment, tension, or missing context.
Guidance for next steps
The report highlights strengths, potential challenges, conflict repair patterns, and practical discussion points for the next stage of review.